I’ll admit it, I’m a sappy, firework wanting, romantic at heart. I use to think there would actually be days when I would find my Prince Charming and birds would sing, people would dance and we might actually float off the ground. Cute, right?
Well, thankfully, I DID find my Prince Charming when I fell in love with my best friend 8+ years ago. No, no one sang and danced… well he did, he was in a band after all… but there were sparks. BIG TIME! We were THE COUPLE that everyone wanted to be; We were best friends that fell in love.
Fast forward through 8 years of traveling, laughing, great friendships, tough decisions, international moving, big fights, stupid fights, owning a business, a baby and more and the spark that once dazzled has mellowed out, leaving us a bit… well, flat at times.
Truth be told, I even freaked out a bit. I thought we were losing it… losing us. I thought that without the spark, the romance and the constant love-proving moments that we were heading towards an inevitable demise.
And then I realized the truth.
I realized that true love evolves from butterflies, “the brand new” feeling and that spark into comfort, longevity and trust. I realized that…
True love is him always leaving me the end of his coffee because I like it.
True love is overcoming the fear and surprise of a perfectly, unplanned pregnancy.
True love is him holding me without words when we found out my mom was in the hospital.
True love is holding him through a cancer diagnosis for his mom.
True love is crawling into bed with our daughter after a night at work and feeling the braid her Daddy put in her hair after her shower.
True love is crying together as we dig a hole to bury our dog that just passed.
True love is binge watching TV shows late into the night.
True love is sitting together, hand feeding our other sick dog.
True love is laughing… a lot.
True love is holding hands in bed after a tough fight.
True love is that different spark we get when we’re having a “perfect family moment.”
True love is tickle fights in bed with our daughter.
True love is looking one another in the eye and fighting to make it work.
True love is hard, it is work and it is not for everyone.
True love… for us… is knowing that through it ALL we will have each other’s backs.
True love, at the end of the day, is different for everyone. True love for us, means getting through the hard parts together. No, it will not always be sunshine and smiles, flowers and fun, but I am honored to have found someone that I feel it is worth fighting for and with. I am finally starting to realize that the fireworks are always special to watch, but it’s who you watch them with that makes them magical.
To my best friend, father of my daughter, future husband and partner through it all, I celebrate us… and our evolution of true love. ❤
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